[quote=treehouse;1760991][quote=Oceanwave;1760847]
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Originally Posted by treehouse
I just got off the phone with t. He explained what happened and it made sense.
We had just realized that he scheduled someone else in my regular appt time next week. He was saying "I guess that's how mad I was" and was still pondering it when he was writing my receipt,and he wrote the other person's name down. He said he doesn't even remember writing a name, because he was thinking.
That was what I had guessed had happened, but it was still nice to connect with T around it and be reassured. And we were able to laugh about it, which felt good, because laughing with T feels safe and connecting to me.  |
Sounds quite innocent. I'm glad you two figured it out and I hope you are feeling better about this. It just shows that he was very anxious not to mess up. You know when some people mess up they then just make one mistake after the other. And then that creates a spiral in you, which again makes T insecure, and he makes mistakes again, and so on. Let it go, if you can - that will stop the cycle.
*hugs*