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Originally Posted by Rohag
Hello, Neonirav!
It is possible that the turmoil in your life could be contributing to the onset of depression. Only a professional, however, can give you a diagnosis of depression.
You may be right. You have a goal and plans to reach that goal. If I read your post correctly, your girlfriend is pressuring you in ways that distract you and make you feel distressed and hopeless.
Whether or not you are clinically depressed, it is difficult to make friends and family understand how you are feeling. It is perhaps more important for you to figure out your own desires and needs now.
Do you have access to any other people where you live who could help you talk and think through what you are facing?
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Thank you sir,
yes, you are right,
she is not understanding or may be not calculating my seriousness towards my goal. She continuously needs me and her continuous interference distract me. I am actually living with my mom because my father is not in this earth to support her, to take care of her. I can not leave my mom alone, she is my living god. sometime she got irritated by my girlfriend's continuous interference in my working hours. my gf considering her as her own mom but this situation can change the thing. this is also one (small but i think effective) parameter.
Yes I have 2 very good friends. I share almost all things with them, EXCEPT THIS ONE....
I feel like failure to tell this thing, so I kept this thing to my own.
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Originally Posted by missbelle
Wow, for 21 you have a lot on your plate.. No wonder you feel the way you do....Ease up a little for a while. Give yourself a mini vacation even if you stay alone in the house without answering the phone or texting......too much stress right now.
..You have got to lessen some of it to get some relief. You cannot do everything all at once. Its like a diet. You can't loose 60 pounds in one day. You are giving yourself goals that are too rigid..... Why not divide the goals up to short term goals.
As you know we are our worst enemy!
Thinking of you.....go easy!!!
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Thank you for appreciating me,
may be you are totally right but I am not made for vacation OR vacation is not made for me.
I am not tired from my work but there external distracting parameters make me feel tired.
Achievement is faaaaaar away, I can no take rest. I am much more mentally stronger except this emotional thing....
I do not want to mix up in billions of middle class family, I want to give a luxurious life to my family and for that, I need to do thing...
May be I am wrong, but I feel like there is fire inside me, preventing me to stop, encouraging me to work hard, to be succeed...
This is what I can not understand, " You can't loose 60 pounds in one day."
If we talk about short term goal, I want to come out of 'the rat race' in 2 years...
I am not getting the results as my expectation and may be that is the reason behind all frustration and depression....
But I feel good now...
thanks to
both of you, i share few things which I can not share with anybody...
Thank you very much....
May be I just need a voice telling me,"everything gonna be alright. don't worry, you can do this. I am with you, I trust you. you can do this."
And may be I will get what I want ASAP...
But thanks for your support, thank you very much...