Sounds pretty violent huh? Well its just how I feel. I'm tired of this man, if you could call him that, behaving like a complete scumbag and acting like he is God's gift to the world. Sometimes I just want to slap him and tell him exactly why he is a filthy parasite in my eyes. But I'll never because I'm just not that person. But sometimes I think I should be.

I guess I should provide some back story to this outburst of rage.

My cousin's name is Gary and for the longest time he was the family's gift from above. He could do no wrong. But all he did was wrong. He started smoking, got into drugs and is now an alcoholic. He never finished high school because he was too lazy to hand in his Community Hours forms. He works full-time paying no rent and no gas or insurance but still somehow can't pay his cell phone bill (the only bill he has) and expects/leaves it to my disabled grandmother to pay for it! (these bills are generally around $300 a month!) This isn't really what bothers me, this is just some insight.

My best friend Emily dated this boy for 3 years, loved him dearly but all he did was bring her down. He made her feel like the scum of the Earth and all they did was fight. On Christmas one year he threw the tree across the living room. He cheated on her. They broke up. Then he proceeded to cheat on his then girlfriend with her, constantly telling her that he loved her and was going to leave his gf for her. All lies of course. Now he's not dating anyone but he's sleeping with 3 different women, including my friend. She knows, but she's still seeing him and she's mad about it but still returns for the abuse. WTF. But its her business I guess.

What angers me the most, what is the root of my seething rage at this moment is his absolute cruelness.

His sister is almost 2 months pregnant and she recently found out that her fetus might not have a heartbeat which will mean that she has to abort it. She's already feeling upset about this but she was holding strong. When I went to visit them last weekend I witnessed them bickering about cake. His sister was trying to tell him not to eat it all because her BF bought it for her because she was craving chocolate. He ended up blowing up (partially because he was drunk and high and part because he's just a JERK) and yelling at her "Yeah well too bad your baby doesn't have a heart beat!" She instantly began crying and took off to her mother's room. After talking to her for a bit I also found out that he'd also said that he hoped the baby died a few weeks before.

I am completely aghast and astounded that someone could be this cruel. It just blows me away to the point that I cant stop thinking about it.

Then I saw him freak out on his 2 month old puppy for pooping on the floor. She's a baby! She doesn't know any better! The puppy is scared to go outside because no one takes her outside aside to punish her! I feel so bad for her that I just want to kidnap her and train her myself. I did actually, while I was there, I taught her to sit on command. So she's definitely not a slow dog, she just needs some patience and mentoring.

I am just absolutely frustrated and I know its probably none of my business but I just want him to show some semblance of humanity! I think he needs an intervention and therapy, but how can I bring up this to my family without offending them?