Nothing wrong with your mind, dear, it's just trying to keep you safe, but it just has to learn better ways of doing so. things that used to work don't alwys work now, or things that sometimes work don't always work. That's just how it is. Can't through everything out, you know, there are these wonderful things in there too In this case, I wouldn't worry about hem taking offese where it's not meant, it seems that they are giving it, so let them straighten it out. Rmember, we can all be a little squirrely, but remind him to stand up for himself if things have gone too far. HUGGGS