I asked T the other day, what DO you do when someone cries....
She said, I sit quietly, wait, give them space and time to cry.....or I cry with them. I had my face buried in her couch, not crying but shaking with unshed tears when she said this, and I heard tears in her voice.....so I believe if I ever do let loose and cry, she will sit there and cry with me. And somehow, this is comforting, to think of tears being shared......even without touch.....