I'm not trying to invade his privacy. It's an iPod that we used to share. There is no diary or anythin like that and if he did have one I have enough respect for him that I would not read something like that. Here's a good example of why this is distressing me: he had to go to another state for two weeks for training. When he came back his iPod was passworded, i asked for it and it was given with no issues. A day or so later said password was taken off. I asked him why he took the password off and his reply was that he was home there was no reason for the password. He only passworded to keep guys at work from messing with it.