I'm not sure what you talk to him about, as in, if you're discussing something having to do with him or a situation outside the family. For me, I've had to stop discussing stuff with my mom and dad because they try to trap me into the past, where I can't function, actually no one can. its impossible.

So, I would try to look elsewhere if possible, someone else? or maybe this forum? I don't have a therapist so I depend on this forum immensely. And I try to research the net for lots of stuff.