whew perna i had problems after reading about the first brother, etc, etc. lol. glad there weren't more for you to have to mention. it's always fun to hear from family when you've been out of touch but i'd tread gently at first. if you have fond memories of someone as a child or older, i'd remind yourself we all have a personal slant on loved ones in our younger life. your memories are yours. if they are pleasant ones for sure. keep them. you were further down the food chain, youngest, so prob had a different relationship with your parents plus you were the only girl. your brothers may have "stuff" that you don't. i'd take their opinions with a grain of salt. hopefully they won't throw in the kitchen sink!
keep us posted!!!!