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I wouldn't suggest lying to him and saying that you're straight, if I'm right that will only add further anxiety and possibly guilt about not being completely honest.
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I see what you're aiming at, and I thought it over as well.Guilt is something I picked up just by posting that idea, but at this point on, I really don't know what to do.I appreciate the advise though, thank you.
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Hun, it is NEVER wrong to be yourself. I am dating a man, and I am bisexual.And if this guy doesn't accept ALL of you, then why should you let him have ANY of you?
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Why push a relationship that truly is incompatible?
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Unfortunately it probably should have been discussed in the very beginning of the relationship, because its who you are.
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The thing is, I'm really accepting when it comes to religion, because I find a little truth and hope in each of them.I can understand why religion is important to him, and I can understand that he was raised ''by the bible'', so to speak.
We get along great, we find understanding over each topic.I've even been able to open myself up to him, and I couldn't do the same to my therapist, who's
supposedly a professional.We even passed this topic before, that's what confuses me. (We ''scratched the surface'' of it, so to speak.) The first time he heard it, he simply laughed a little.Now, I'm not sure if he "forgot" about it and simply had a bad day, or he thought I was joking when I said it the first time.
We've only talked once, and because I had classes, I had to cut this short.
I suppose I simply panicked over it, but I'm really hoping that next time we get to talk, things clear out..
Honestly, at this point, I don't know what to do.
But waiting for a while, to see how things add up, seems better then cutting off what could end up to be a peaceful relationship..
In either case, I appreciate the support and the advise.Thank you.