btw, distancedistressed - if you two know in your hearts you REALLY love each other and you want to spend the rest of your lives with one another, you won't let this come between you. But if her religion is that important to her and she can't compromise her beliefs (and, which in this case means not only just attending services but an eventual attempt to convert you), then you should move on. Despite your sincere attempt to be open-minded and educate yourself about the LDS Church, you say you still find tenets of that faith to be ridiculous and you can't help feeling that way. You can't accept it, and that's OK. Anyway, I'm a non-practicing Catholic and that's what I would do if I were in your situation. Good luck...