Our relationship is starting to change and for the worst, why fix something that isnt broken? And none of this was ever an issue until after that fight. Its getting down right ridiculous. Used to be at night he would put it on the bedside table now he sleeps with it in his pocket! There are no journals or such. I know its nothing to do with money as I have access to the accounts and manage the money and bills. I shouldnt have to feel unwelcome in my own bedroom because hes on the ipod. His attitude toward this whole thing has made things tense.

when we had the fight he has said he changed the password to see if i was checking up on him, which i wasnt. honestly had he not acted weird when I took it i wouldnt have even checked. But when he got defensive and wouldnt tell me the password that did nothing but make him look suspicious. Had he just be like the password is **** then I would have said thank you for being open and left it at that....i wouldnt have even put it in.