I talked about old T with new T...but not until I was with him for about 5 mos. He was floored that I didn't "run" sooner, and he says it furthered my belief that i deserve to be treated badly.

So yea, I wouldn't go right in complaining about old T, but when you get your bearings it's ok to bring it up...it was a painful event, thats what T's are there to listen to.