I would not feel very connected to my therapy or therapist if I was treated this way. I'm sorry this is happening for you.
I recently read an article on this site's home page, or a DocJohn blog perhaps, that was about signs that your therapist is just not that into you. I'm sorry to say that what you describe is one of the signs that was referred to in the article.
I will look for it and post a link.
Yes, here it is. It is by DocJohn:
http://psychcentral.com/blog/archive...our-therapist/