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Old Mar 19, 2011, 10:26 AM
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I would try to explore with your T the don't-like-her-sitting-at-a-desk thing and where that comes from, sounds like a transference from a situation earlier in your life. For me, that's what therapy is about, exploring all the discomforts to see where they are individually coming from and resolving those, older, issues. I got so I looked forward to "bad" or complicated feelings as they were therapy "problems" just like math problems in school (or puzzles, "cross" word puzzles? LOL). Dreams for me became similar and I would look forward to the nightmares even and be grateful my unconscious thought I was strong enough to look at/work with them "now".
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