Oh, yes! The whole "regulatory" thing so you don't get swallowed up or aren't too far away and feel alone and helpless. Don't know how to work on that one :-)

I guess have to "practice" getting closer and/or further away over and over so it gets more comfortable, just like the trust thing. I did learn to trust my defenses to keep me safe so I could experiment a bit more and in experimenting, found what I thought would be bad wasn't as bad as I thought?