My third anniversary for my divorce is coming up, and with my ex rubbing his new wife, life and upcoming child in my face, I understand how you feel.

But the thing is, we're stronger than we all think we are. I think counseling will help you get your life back on track. And we're here for you, too.

You are a strong woman who is going through a very tough time right now. Starting over is tough, and can really suck sometimes. Believe me, I know! I just hope you know that you are cared about, your feelings matter, and you don't need to beat yourself up about what happened.