My father was not the perfect man however he was a decent hard working man and one to be proud of !

After he died one of my older sisters (12 years older than me) told me a couple of things about my dad that made me feel sick. (he had not abused anyone nothing like that)

I had/have a choice and chose to accept that he was a man a good man and a good father to me but was also human and like all humans made mistakes....

This does not take away from the fact he was a good father to me. And that is how I see it.