I sort of call it growing pains.....honestly, it seems like a normal part of any relationship. There are always things that will come up where we feel more of a distance is needed, then as we work through that & think through it & grow in that situation, we end up shortening the distance.....then that feels so good to have the caring again until we come upon something else that we realize we need distance again.

All relationships have a bit of this that goes on with them.....even marriages, or good friendships where there are times we feel closer than others.....I think it's really just a part of having a good relationship when it doesn't completely break up & it all gets worked out......that is what a growing relationship is all about.