Thank you for your comments and suggestions; very, very much appreciated. I have a really hard time understanding the spending thing for BPs since I have never known one until my son. He readily accepted being budgeted as described so here's hoping.
Would also like to say how much I appreciate this site where people bare their difficulties so readily; it has helped me a LOT in knowing that he is not faking anything that he tells me. Sometimes reading stuff here is just like listening to him for the last ten years and wondering what on earth was wrong with him!!! Since he was diagnosed and I found this site, it is a comfort to know it is a disease that millions of people have and he is 'normal' by those standards and treatable.
So Thank You to all !
One more question before I shut up: He is refusing to go to therapy any more because the last T just sits there and basically says nothing and then collects $100. Does he need a different T or is that to be expected???? I really feel the 1st T helped him a lot but he talked some and left my son with certain things to do to help his anxiety after most sessions. What should one expect from a T?