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Mar 20, 2011, 06:44 AM
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Member Since: Oct 2010
Location: Michigan
Posts: 6,543
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Hi sweetie ~ I'm sorry you're feeling so down. I hated my teenage years. I'd never go back to those years for all the tea in China.
It sounds like your Mom is pretty busy with her boyfriend, huh? I think she's so wrapped up in her new life, that she's forgotten that she's a Mother.  And NO, that's not fair -- she shouldn't put the responsibility on your kids. Sometimes parents really screw up ~ they all of a sudden get really selfish ~ sometimes they realize it, and sometimes they don't.
Is there anyway you can have a QUIET, CALM sit-down talk with your Mom and tell her that you miss her? Tell her that you still feel depressed, and that you had to write to us here for advice? You could tell her how much you enjoyed the times you used to spend together - and you want to do it again. Just tell her exactly how you feel, but without RAISING your voice. Be sincere & loving. I don't see how she could deny you. 
Best of luck hon, and please let us know how you come out. God bless. Hugs, Lee
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