that I think is the key......and being able to look at things at home and not want to jump up and fix or clean them....letting some things go and allowing pain days realizing that it is normal to have pain some days based on your dx....I practice acceptance, but darn its very hard at times because I just want to be a normal person that walks normally and does what they want. I have generalized osteoarthrits and its all based on priorities and balancing my life. It is tough!!