I chickened out of asking--imagine that! So, I still don't know what to call her. Fortunately since its only me and her in the room I don't feel the need to use any forms of address. But, I would like to know. Besides, I can't pronounce her last name correctly. Her card has her full name and so it doesn't give me any hints. One of my friends calls his guy by his first name. But, he has been in a longer and possible permenent relationship. I enter these relationships on a shorter term because my problems are "slight."