What does a hug mean? It means "I accept you", It's gonna be okay", "I'm here for you", etc....It also represents love, protection, and comfort. A hug tells you that someone cares about you and that you have the support of that person.
So what is the big deal that therapists cannot 'touch' a client? I know there must be some psychological reason, but I am also sure this has something to do with being careful so as not to be sued if a hug is interpreted the wrong way.
Then again, there are dentists and doctors who hug their patients all the time. I am interested to find out where this boundary really originates.
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