"...the (many times he pressured me) to make out with him then eventually made me..."
I understand vulnerable.I think it's great you are working on boundaries.Girls need to say very clear...no is no.I'm sorry you "offended me with a word"? Oh OK...well I am pretty confident so I'll live.Yes ,we post here because we have issues...but also because we want a reply.Please clarify whether you prefer a reply when you post?I worry alot about this situation arising in my sons lives.So I am reiterating ....be very clear verbally with males."Despite the advice of ...my mom,my T ,and my best friend....I texted the guy."I really would listen to the advice you are getting...but that's me.I agree don't feel guilty for his behavior.
Take good care of yourself
Wolf