Sept
I'm sorry she's hurting you like this. I just am trying to put myself in the DIL's shoes and after almost dying and knowing that my baby had almost died, I'd probably be feeling pretty selfish myself. I didn't forget that you had mentioned that about your son and husband, but maybe those two visits stressed her out... there is so much more that could be going on with her, plus being hormonal, scared, having averted what could have been a huge trauma.
I'm really sorry you're hurting so bad. It would be nice if she'd give you a chance to see your grandson. Hopefully when the baby goes home things will work out in a way opposite of what you're dreading.
tc, Sept.