A very simple view of this..say you are 100% correct..then she just doesn't like you and holds all the cards

Say you are 100% wrong then you are being abusive

BUT what if there is truth and a reason for what you both have said and done...THEN there is a fix somewhere to be found....

I agree with Sky above all are being supportive of you it doesnt mean they/we all agree.....I am sure we wish you could find your way OUT of this to some peace..best of luck