I honestly don’t understand why you punish me more than you punish her. I do nothing wrong. I am completely innocent. She’s the one who continues to make the wrong decisions on purpose and I think that until you really punish her she will never learn. When you say you’re going to punish her you never do cause she doesn’t even do anything. Sure you tell her she has to take the bus and that she’s grounded from her car, but really you give her the car and I’m the one who has to ride the bus. I really don’t think that’s fair. Because you never successfully punish her and that’s why I think she keeps making the same stupid mistakes over and over again. Sure you make her do dishes and all but when she washes you make me dry. Not that I don’t mind helping out but isn’t it her punishment and not mine too?
It just makes me feel like I’m always dragged into the punishment with her. I mean, like I do nothing wrong, ever. So why punish me too? It honestly makes me feel like you don’t care about me at all and depressed. Making me confused and want to do bad just to get your attention. Which I am so close to doing, but I wont. It just makes me feel like I’m invisible and you don’t see me, you just treat me like you treat her. I really don’t think that’s fair.
I’d really like the type of parents I can talk to about anything, and believe me I want to talk to you guys. But you kinda shrug me off and treat me like you treat her.
You just let her get away with anything. And then she continues to make foolish choices.
But I don’t know, that’s just my opinion.