Thanks for that Byzantine! Just my thoughts, but I don't think we EVER are fully healed. I don't think it's really possible with alot of us. Seems like so many of us have such deep seated problems, that even though we've learned how to deal/cope with them, we'll never fully get "rid" of them. They've been ingrained in our psyche' so long that they're just closeted in the basement cupboard and will hopefully stay there.
So I agree with you that we become 'ready' to take on the challenge of a relationship. Rather than being healed, we've become stronger and more prepared. God bless. Hugs, Lee
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