you have such a good point in your journey towards healing. I attracted all the wrong men because I was not together as a person. I never could figure why...all these guys were attracted to me.......they were all needy and I had no self esteem and willing to take anyone who would pay attention to me.I would be their caregiver but when I needed them to care for me, they couldn't.....not their fault ...I was the one who sought out these men and then wanted them to change.....

I learned and grew and got much healthier but it hurt a lot of people including my own children.Now I attract healty people, men, and women and know immediately which ones I need to back away from. Lesson learned but I wish it happened much sooner then it did!!