Tomi...I know the whole story and if I remember - wasn't there a time that C's family was reading and posting on here too? No matter how much she is hurting you right now...calling her an incubus and *itch is not helping anything. She may be reading this again and could be hurt by what you are saying.

You know how much I care for you but sometimes (and this is a time) that "I" think you are being too harsh and not giving an inch here. There is a new baby involved...please try to remember that. Whatever you think of C...she is his mother....that will never change. When you think about it...they have been married 7 years...that is a long time. John is a grown man and he made his own decisions including staying with her as well as having children with her too.

Sometimes it just helps to swallow one's pride and move forward.

This is nothing personal towards you ok? I am just catching up on posts here and was feeling your pain in reading this.