I love sitting in T's chair. It honestly feels like the safest place in the world to me. It feels so comfortable and contained and when I'm sitting there, I see T sitting on my big, open, scary couch, and being okay there and that helps too. I put a pillow on my lap or hide everything but my head under a blanket and it's like a little nest.

I've noticed that when we switch seats T is more open. Or maybe I am more open with my questions (which seems impossible, honestly).

We don't do it that often. Usually if I feel really scared or unsafe I will ask him to come over to the couch (if I am able to get the words out)...but sometimes I just want to be physically alone, so we switch seats.