Dear Rhapsody,

I had a long response written but I accidently deleted it when I went to preview it.

This will be shorter because I have to go to a dental appt. ick.

I was in a relationship with a sex addict and nothing I did to look good made a bit of difference and I was knocking myself out to lose weight and I even dyed my hair blonde because he cheated on me with a blonde.

This story of what happened with him is really long so I won't tell it all but for him it wasn't about appearances it was the excitement I think and he said he couldn't help it.

I'm in a different relationship now and am with someone who doesn't care about how I look because he knows it's about what's inside not outside. Anyone could be in an accident and their physical beauty taken.

I sure hope that your husband appreciates how hard you try to be what he wants and I sure hope that you can find some peace today.
Susan