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Originally Posted by Symbiosis
You want to know she gives a flip and if she did, she would try to be more comforting because she realizes your issues and sensitivity to the disruption of the schedule---is that somewhat true?
I'm at the same place right now. My T has been away for 3 weeks and I wasn't prepared for any of his absences. Now I keep wanting him to check in and of course, he won't. That would show too much caring and concern and why on earth should we expect support for our therapists?! Errr.
When do you see her next?
Maybe we can stew together?  I'm climbing the walls! |
Symbiosis,
I see her next week and, hard as it is, I'm going to talk to her about it. It's not that i don't want to heal. But i don't want healing to mean that i lose my connection with her. So that every step forward i take, she takes a step back. i need to know her caring and commitment to me last through to the end of our work. not that with each step of progress, she is going to push me out the door.
