hi rachael, my first question is, are you presently married? that would help us to know, if you're comfortable with telling us. are there children involved?, second question.
what responsible advice have your irl friends given you?
what do you feel you need to do in order to be who you are?
are you wanting or willing to take the risk of being criticized by your loved ones?
sorry for so many questions. please know, to me it doesn't matter what someone "is" but who they truly are. how can anyone be judgemental? like you said, this wasn't your choice. it just is. hugs.
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