Rape wasn't a good term to use. All of this, even my therapist said would probably be considered PRESSURE//MANIPULATION...i don't see the guy in person however....i haven't seen him in months... i accidentally erased a previous comment that stated that I haven't seen him in months and this post was actually formed over a phone conversation. I've actually managed to not see him in person....and stay away from him in that context. The next boundary i haven't quite got down is having COMPLETE separation from him....which would include ignoring his phone calls...really, my issue with boundaries has been prevalent my whole life...i was sexually violated when i was 10 years old and when I was about 16. The inability/difficulty in saying NO started young but, I'm doing what I can now because I believe I am old enough to change/ defend myself, I'm not a little girl anymore. I'm 21.
...so as for warned and still proceeded... I'm working on it.

p.s. thanks for being mean. you make valid points.