If YOU are needing something right now that is safe & natural I would suggest Valerian Root - you can get it at your local WalMart (or whatever store you have your way). It is all natural and works really fast with no side effects that I can speak of.

As far as the OCD goes - you will need to work on retraining your brain... for it is use to going there, the fears of your daughter, you must teach it not to react - sing or pray when the thoughts try to enter your mind again (any thing to distract it).

LoVe,
Rhapsody -