I was once your mom. I disregarded my childrens wants in favor of the boyfriend some time. I was very wrong.Do what you need to do. Moms boyfriend has no place at the party especially if you do not like him. You certainly have my total support because now after a lot of years have gone by, I totally know I was wrong.!!!!!!Let me know what you decide!!!
Thinking of you and I am sorry mom has not grown up emotionally enough to see that you have wants and needs and that you indeed are very special.You have a right to decide what is best for you!!!!!
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