peg.... but the thing is... many people don't feel supported here. One has to walk on eggshells so somebody's feelings don't get hurt... and some here have feelings as delicate as soap bubbles.

Nobody would HAVE to engage in the debates, just as now people don't go to some forums right now. But those who are seeking alternatives, those who feel they want to look into alternative path, those who want to share their experience... how supportive is to deny those people that chance? It might HELP them in the end.

This place should be a place to find information, options, have our viewpoints challenged when necesary. Place for real advice.