Honestly, no they aren't my business. This wasn't something he shared, it's some stupid virus/fishing scam that got him, and I feel bad for him because I've had that kind of crap happen to me. But it's not me snooping or anything that brought it to my attention, so I am not to blame either.

I am really sensitive to this issue, for very personal reasons many of which have put me into therapy to begin with. There was a thread a while back something like "what is your biggest fear about your T" and I wrote something like "him being a pervert". I just can't do therapy with someone who hangs out on sex sites. It's a personal thing.