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Originally Posted by darkrunner
I feel it would be monumentally unfair for you to assume anything about your T without discussing it with him.
Between this and the previous incident when you were in the ER, it seems like you are looking for reasons to run from your T and to not trust him.
If you keep looking hard enough, I'm sure you will eventually find a reason not to trust him, as you would with any T, because they're all human.
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You're right. It would be unfair to judge him on this. It's to "iffy" and uncertain.
I know it may seem like I am looking for reasons to run, but that's not my history at all. I have had long term relationships with T's, and with others as well...most of my friends I've had for more then a decade...and h, 26 yrs. I am not a runner...it's just that I want to trust this guy, I really like him, but stuff keeps coming up to make me hesitate. This hasn't happened with other T's....but I haven't ever felt this connected with other T's either.
The ER room thing, he took the blame for. He said he didn't take the time to get all the facts, and he made a bad call.