Sabby - I hope they do get your grandson into grief counseling. I feel so bad for you and your family. It brings tears to my eyes when I read this. I am glad that you are sharing though. I wish I had a parent/grandparent who had stood up for me. I think you and your daughter are doing an awesome job. Keep up the good work.
Happy Birthday to your grandson.
Heart-whispers - I am sorry you are going through something similar. You are in my thoughts.