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Originally Posted by sittingatwatersedge
Bottom line: this new rule was imposed on T and she is not going to bend it or even ask about grandfathering in anyone no matter how long the relationship
and so, I will just stuff how I feel about it, since it won't change that is all I can do about it.
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So your T is happy about having this rule imposed on her?
The
only thing you can do is stuff your feelings? No other options are possible?
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I must say that T was just delighted with the transference of the Dumbo thing, and wanted to talk about that for a long time. The more we went into it, the more shame I felt, and the happier she seemed to be about how humiliated I obvioously felt...
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I detect some possible "cognitive distortions" here... even though they must serve some purpose in making you feel better, temporarily.
OK, I'm outta here.