My son is seeing a T with the same company I recently left(to find a new T), He is possible bipolar, but seems to be doing really well. He wants to stop T. Right now he is at every other week. I think I would like to drop to once a month for 2 months and then stop. His T has disagreed with me on this. I am having a hard time with perspective. I have felt both judged and disrespected by this T more than once, But I am not sure if I am just a mommy being over sensitive.

One time she gave my son a questionnaire to fill out. Right away I recognized it as an attachment assessment and questioned her on it. She said even the best parents can raise kids with attachment issues and it is even more prevalent if the parent has an attachment issue. (I do but I am more than aware of how attachment works).

I have also felt she has really crossed the line more than once from T to teaching/value systems the last handout she gave son was on couples in crisis strategies for high conflict relationships. My son is 16. She has also suggested my husband I and I attend some marriage counseling. Of all the things in my life my marriage is the best thing. My hubby is my best friend and we talk about everything, married 21 years.

His appt is tues. I already set up a sitter so both me and my husband can go. Thing is I have anxiety disorder and I don't express myself well so I need a plan before I go. Any ideas on how I can go in without looking like a crazy momma bear? keep in mind she knows I left my T, though she has no idea I have found a new one, because I don't want anything getting back to my old T.

I work in social service confidentiality is bull.

Maggy