I can feel your pain, Peaches. Now you sound angry with your T and your Mom too. It's disappointing when our Ts can't really, really be our Moms and do it over the way we wanted it the first time, isn't it?

I think there can be a middle ground and you have to talk about this at your next session. I believe that IN your session, your T will acknowledge your abandonment fears. It needs discussing; emails aren't good for that kind of discussion.

I'm sorry you're suffering so much right now.