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Old Mar 24, 2011, 01:47 PM
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Originally Posted by Liam Grey View Post
But that's cruel! I didn't realize she took away even the handshake from you !

I'll be honest... I usually just handshake my T when I left, sometimes she just pat my back and plus we share a small, innocent kiss on the cheek when we part for a long time (like summer vacation).. so she never hugged me or such in therapy (nor that I asked). But if she'll ever took this little contacts away.. well, I think I would be DONE forever with her. I would just leave.

I HAVE to believe that, leaving out the fact that I pay to be listened, there's some real relationship there. I can partially understand the hugs, but no touch at all... seems so "alien" to me. So aseptic.

Of course... with this post I don't want to make things more difficult for you or for SAWE... it's just my simple perspective of the things.
Yes, it's not only no hugs, it's no physical contact......and forever. It hurts, but it is what it is. T might change her mind someday on the forever and ever part perhaps, but I won't be holding my breath!