When you are depressed, it can make you highly irritable. Take a deep breath. Breathe in, breathe out. Then do it again. Stop yourself several times a day if you are feeling overwhelmed and do this. It might help. Won't lessen your load, but might settle you a bit so you can deal with it beter. Hope you enjoy your days off, get some rest and get a few things done and off your platter. Be good to yourself, no matter what else happens!