Thank you all for your support. I have called to make my appointment for my doctor to get a referal to see a Therapist. But since the good ole military is so wonderful I won't see my doc until Feb. 7th So I do have a little light at the end of my tunnel. Far as my step daughter goes, I just can't put up with her anymore. She's very ungreatful and she thinks she's in her 20;s but I love her...and I was really upset last night because it was hurting my husband that she wanted to go home. I have tried so very hard to make a connection with her. I have told her time and time and time again that my attitude isnt anyone's fault but my own. But she thinks that everything that goes on around here is a personal attack against her... She's miss high mighty princess that has to suck up all the attention she can get. I'm tired of catering to her. I do blame myself for the way she is feeling, but I am putting my foot down. I care about me more, I know that sounds greedy but I have to care about myself, or I'm not going to be able to care about anyone else. I tried to explain to her last night about the way she feels, but she had the attitude on and wasn't listening.. *sigh* I hate to see her go but I can't worry about it anymore, it's stressing me out...

Thanks again everyone for your replies..