Thank you, that does make me feel better to know that it isn't as severe as I feel like it is. I know that I have improved my anger issues over the years, as I use to be worse. My dad is very controlling over my mom, it was very hard to live with that. My sister couldn't handle the control my dad placed over the three of us and found back only to get smacked to the ground, she moved out after that. That was a long time ago. I haven't lived at home for over 4 years. Ever since I moved out I have been working on habits that I had devolped over time from living with my parents. Perhaps recognizing that I have some problems is the first step to working on them.

In order, to be able to help my spending habits, I got a small second job a month ago. I try very hard for it not to let it add to any issues. But the extra money has helped us greatly.

I also wonder that if I were to call the phsyc. department and try to make an appointment that I wouldn't know what to say, that my reasons for seeing someone were not legit enough.

As for the migraines I am on a prescriptiong medication, I visit physician for those already. They come and go, they aren't as frequent as they use to be, I noticed I haven't complained as much, but the last couple days they have shown up.