Yesterday my bf found out he could get $50 from his payee today. Since he wasn't gonna be in town today and I was, i said i'd pick up the check. Before I went to bed last night I told him that when I wake him up he has to remind me to take a note in saying I had permission from him to pick up the check and that I'd pick up the check then. Why did I tell him this? Well, I'd lose my head if it wasn't attached, that's why!

This morning when I got up, totally forgetting about the check, I got ready to go to partial and waited for my ride. When I got my bf up he said to set the alarm for 9:30 am. Last night he said he'd get up with me and clean and everything before we'd leave for Pittsburgh today. Well, since he didn't remind me I didn't pick up the check.

When I got home, he asked about the check. When I told him that since I wasn't reminded, I didn't remember to pick up the check, he was immediately irate. He started yelling at me, asking me how I could forget something so important! For one thing, it wasn't that important to me. I told him so. It was only important to him that we have money for going down to Pittsburgh. He just kept repeating himself, saying how could I forget something so important????

It just really made me feel like a big pile of crap. It's like no matter what I do, I'm not good enough. He's the one that didn't check to see if his check was ready at the end of the day yesterday! I just feel like I get blamed for everything!