My t told me up front that he would contact my husband and pdoc when I am suicidal. As he says, he refuses to be an accomplice to my suicide. It has always been the understanding between us, and I know if I call him and I'm suicidal, the first thing he is going to do is ask to speak to my husband. I'm okay with that. He can't just sit by and do nothing. My husband is supportive, so it is natural that he is brought into the loop when things go awry.